Lying is done.....

Thanks be to God, I do not lie, I do not take kindly to liars in any shape or form.

I will be blunt and honest to a certain point whereas I will not set out to hurt someone that I have respect for.
By being honest, it is far more easier for myself to follow a negative on with a positive, thereby creating a form of constructive criticism if you like.

Welcome back Linda, its good to hear from you.

As an afterthought, to be a liar, you need a good memory. As one lie leads to another, until the original first lie gets completely out of all proportion.

"Peacemakers shall be called the children of God."

Lies in relationships do create so much disfunction. But what i have noticed within me the past couple weeks is that i have been lying to myself for quite a long time.

Just last night i had an awakening of why i could not see this lie within me. I have quit (drugs, alcohol, smoking) for about 6 years give or take, i thought i was cured from an addictive personality.

So last night i was switching through the channels, and came across a program that was called bad sex, well my lustful mind spun and i thought hmm i probably shouldn't watch this but let me just take a look.

So i did and come to find out it was a program about this man being addicted to womans love and instantly falling in love with woman. Anyway not to get of topic but as i watched this program i realized that i was just like this guy in my thinking. I put women up on pedestals all my life in turn creating much chaos.

I come to understand that this block the (lie) that was keeping me stuck in the same patterns has finally been seen for the first time in my life. This thinking has caused alot of problems with my relationship with others and my wife Helen (wind-dancer). My great understanding was that i still have an addictive personality. Lies to others or lies within ourselves do cause disfunction as i have learned. Very good topic it's one im sure we can all relate to at one time or another.

~To thine own self be true~

Many Blessings

Spirit-Being wrote:Lies in relationships do create so much disfunction. But what i have noticed within me the past couple weeks is that i have been lying to myself for quite a long time.

Just last night i had an awakening of why i could not see this lie within me. I have quit (drugs, alcohol, smoking) for about 6 years give or take, i thought i was cured from an addictive personality.

So last night i was switching through the channels, and came across a program that was called bad sex, well my lustful mind spun and i thought hmm i probably shouldn't watch this but let me just take a look.

So i did and come to find out it was a program about this man being addicted to womans love and instantly falling in love with woman. Anyway not to get of topic but as i watched this program i realized that i was just like this guy in my thinking. I put women up on pedestals all my life in turn creating much chaos.

I come to understand that this block the (lie) that was keeping me stuck in the same patterns has finally been seen for the first time in my life. This thinking has caused alot of problems with my relationship with others and my wife Helen (wind-dancer). My great understanding was that i still have an addictive personality. Lies to others or lies within ourselves do cause disfunction as i have learned. Very good topic it's one im sure we can all relate to at one time or another.

~To thine own self be true~

Many Blessings

Sometimes male empaths are addicted to the energies that females give off/radiate. But like with everything else, familiarity breeds contempt and one is always hunting something new. What is interesting though is that some women give off pheromones and things become chemical and a whole new ball game .

sunmystic wrote:Sometimes male empaths are addicted to the energies that females give off/radiate. But like with everything else, familiarity breeds contempt and one is always hunting something new. What is interesting though is that some women give off pheromones and things become chemical and a whole new ball game.

I like how you put this, i don't understand everything so i think ill look up a few words to understand them better.

"Love Potion Number 9". That movie actually has a bases in the real physical world. About half of the pores in our skin are associated with a pheromone gland, it is just that in most people these glands don't seem to be active. But in some people they are active and if you ever meet a women that has active pheromone glands, chemically you will have met perfection and psychologically you won't care.

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